Sales & Conversion· 3 min read· By The SpideyChat Team

Occasion Wear Enquiries With A Date Attached

She needs it for the fourteenth and everything depends on whether you can say yes. A teardown.


A customer needs something for a wedding on the fourteenth. It is now the first.

She messages a boutique on a Sunday evening asking whether a particular dress can arrive in time and in her size. The answer depends on stock, delivery and whether it will need taking up.

Nobody replies until Tuesday. By then she has bought from a shop that answered on Sunday night with a yes, a delivery date and an offer to fit alterations in on the eleventh.

The first failure: the date is not treated as the primary question

Everything else is secondary. Whether it can arrive in time determines whether any other conversation is worth having.

The second failure: the reply is slower than the deadline allows

With two weeks to go, a two day reply has consumed a seventh of the available time and signalled that this shop cannot be relied upon.

The third failure: alterations time is not included

The commonest miscalculation. A garment arriving on the twelfth that needs a hem taken up is a garment that does not make the fourteenth.

The fourth failure: the alterations service is not mentioned

Many boutiques offer it and few lead with it, which is the gap in alterations and tailoring questions boutiques answer.

The fifth failure: the size availability is not confirmed

A yes on delivery and a maybe on size is not an answer somebody with a date can act on.

The sixth failure: no alternative is offered

If the specific item cannot make the date, something similar that can is the whole of the sale, and it is rarely proposed.

The seventh failure: the occasion is not established

A wedding guest, a mother of the bride, an interview and a christening need entirely different things, and the enquiry is treated identically.

The eighth failure: the styling question goes unanswered

She also wants to know whether it will suit her, on her, at an event where she will be photographed all day. A shop that answers the date question and says nothing about the garment has answered half of it.

The ninth failure: the accessories are not suggested

Somebody buying for an occasion is buying an outfit, and the shoes, the bag and the cover up are the difference between one sale and four.

The tenth failure: the returns question is left hanging

With a deadline, she needs to know what happens if it does not work, and an unclear answer stops the purchase entirely.

The eleventh failure: the enquiry arrives at the weekend

When shops are closed and when people plan weddings, which is the timing mismatch that decides most of these sales.

The twelfth failure: the date is not used afterwards

A customer who bought for a wedding in June is a customer worth contacting before the next season, and nobody records why she bought.

The thirteenth failure: the urgency is not priced

Somebody with a deadline will pay for express delivery and for alterations fitted in quickly, and frequently nobody offers either. The option to spend more to make the date is the easiest sale in the whole conversation.

The fix: answer the date question on Sunday evening

An assistant that confirms size availability, states the delivery date, adds the alterations time, offers an alternative that can make the deadline and suggests what goes with it converts the customer who otherwise buys from whoever answered first. The same deadline pattern appears in occasionwear enquiries with a date in mind, event enquiries with a date but no budget and chatbots for event and wedding planners. Start at try, see features, and the sector view sits under ecommerce.

Frequently asked questions

What makes occasion wear enquiries different?
A fixed date, which means delivery time, alterations time and availability all have to work together, and a slow answer is the same as no answer.
What do customers forget to allow for?
Alterations, which frequently need a week or more after the garment arrives, so a delivery date that looks comfortable is often already too late.
What converts these enquiries?
A definite yes or no about the date, stated immediately, with what would need to happen and by when, because she is asking several shops at once.

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