Customer Support· 3 min read· By The SpideyChat Team

Financial Difficulty and Forbearance Enquiries

People make contact months after they should have. A checklist for the conversation that has to be easy to start.


A man loses part of his income in March. He covers the payments from savings, then from a card, then from another card.

He makes contact in September, by which time there are arrears, charges and a credit file that will follow him for years. In March there were several straightforward options available to him.

He did not call because he was ashamed, because he believed asking would trigger something bad, and because he could not find a route that looked like it was for him.

1. Make the route easy to find and easy to start

Not buried under collections language. A clearly named route, on the main pages, that a worried person can find without feeling they are entering a process about failure.

2. Say plainly that early contact helps

And that it is routine. People believe they are the only one, and that contact triggers something punitive. Both beliefs delay them past the point where the best options exist.

3. Explain what actually happens on contact

A conversation about income and outgoings, an assessment and a set of options. People imagine an interrogation and find something far more ordinary.

4. Be honest about the credit file

What is recorded, what is not and how it compares to missed payments. A vague answer here stops people making contact, and the honest answer usually encourages it.

5. Explain the options in plain terms

Reduced payments for a period, extending a term, a payment arrangement, or a pause where appropriate. Naming them makes the conversation feel survivable.

6. Explain what information will be needed

Income, outgoings, other debts and any change in circumstances. Somebody who can prepare feels less exposed and the conversation goes better.

7. Signpost free independent debt advice

Free services exist and are better placed for somebody with multiple creditors. A provider that signposts them is trusted more, not less.

8. Make contact possible outside working hours

People think about money in the evening. A route that is only open when they are at work excludes the moment they are ready to act.

9. Recognise vulnerability properly

Bereavement, illness, relationship breakdown and job loss sit behind most of these conversations. The response has to account for that rather than processing an application.

10. Never let somebody be passed around

Repeating a difficult story to three people is what makes people stop. One named route and one owner, which is the routing principle in member questions credit unions answer every day.

11. Cover the mortgage case specifically

It carries the greatest fear and the widest set of options, which is the territory in mortgage enquiry questions before an appointment.

12. Explain what happens next in writing

What was agreed, for how long, what to do if circumstances change and when it will be reviewed. Verbal reassurance is forgotten by the following week.

13. Prompt a review rather than waiting

Circumstances change again, and a provider that checks in prevents a second crisis arriving unannounced.

14. Make the first step easy at the hour somebody is ready

An assistant that explains what help exists, what happens on contact, what it means for a credit file, what information to gather and how to reach a person makes a conversation possible in March rather than September. Handle it with the same care described in funding and local authority questions in care enquiries and the structured financial explanation in how financial advisors use chatbots to answer client questions. Start at try, see features, and the sector view sits under financial advisors.

Frequently asked questions

What should somebody do if they cannot make a payment?
Contact the provider before missing one, because the options available before arrears build are considerably wider than those available afterwards.
Will asking for help damage a credit record?
Some arrangements are recorded and others are not, and the effect of an agreed arrangement is generally far less damaging than missed payments accumulating without contact.
What help is usually available?
Depending on circumstances, options can include a reduced payment period, a term extension, a temporary arrangement or a referral to free independent debt advice.

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