Customer Support· 3 min read· By The SpideyChat Team

Communication Preference Questions Patients Care About

A voicemail on a shared phone can undo months of privacy. A checklist for asking how somebody wants to be contacted.


A patient works in an open plan office. Her phone rings, the screen shows the clinic's name, and three colleagues look up. She has told nobody anything.

Nothing confidential was said. The call itself was the disclosure, and nobody had ever asked her how she would prefer to be reached.

The checklist

Ask these once, record them, and honour them.

1. The preferred method

Telephone, text, email or a portal. People have genuine preferences and being asked is itself reassuring.

2. Which number

A mobile, a home number or neither. Some patients want nothing on a shared landline and will not volunteer that unprompted.

3. Whether a voicemail may be left

And what it may say. A message naming the clinic is a disclosure in many households, and the default should be agreed rather than assumed.

4. Whether the clinic name may be used

On voicemails, texts, letters and envelopes. Discreet contact is a common request and it is easily accommodated once somebody asks.

5. What times are suitable

Working hours, evenings, or particular days. A patient in meetings all morning is not avoiding you.

6. Whether a partner may be told

Named, with what they may be told and what they may not. It should be recorded and it should be changeable.

7. What happens if somebody else answers

A stated approach, so that whoever makes the call knows what to say. It is the moment where privacy is most often lost.

8. Whether post is safe

Shared households, house shares and family homes where letters are opened by somebody else. Plain envelopes matter and patients should be able to ask.

9. How results are delivered

Telephone, appointment or portal, and whether the patient can choose. Nobody should receive significant news at a moment they did not choose.

10. How appointments are confirmed

Text, email or letter, and whether reminders can be discreet. Patients keep phones on a kitchen table and a reminder is visible to anybody.

11. How to change a preference

Easily, at any time, without explaining why. Circumstances change and the record should follow rather than being set once at registration.

12. Who inside the clinic sees it

That the preference is visible to everybody who would make contact. A recorded preference that one department ignores is worse than none.

12b. What happens when something is urgent

A preference for text only becomes a problem when a clinician needs to speak to somebody today. Explaining that urgent clinical matters may need a call regardless, and agreeing a fallback number for exactly those occasions, means a preference is honoured without anybody being unreachable when it matters.

12c. Say what the clinic will never do

That nobody will discuss a patient's care with somebody who rings claiming to be a relative, and that no clinical detail is sent by text or email unless the patient has asked for it. Stating the limits is what makes the preferences feel like a policy rather than a courtesy.

13. Publish the policy

So patients know they may ask, which is the reassurance in first enquiries to a fertility clinic handled with care and the administrative ground in clinic websites and the admin questions patients ask first.

14. Keep the details current

Because out of date contact details are what cause missed communications years later, as in storage and consent questions patients ask later.

Getting started

Publish your contact policy and ask every patient their preference, building the page with the AI FAQ generator, then capture and update preferences at any hour, the same way bookings work in how chiropractic clinics book new patients with a chatbot. SpideyChat for clinics answers from your published pages. Try SpideyChat on your own site, or read about capture on the features page.

Frequently asked questions

Can you ask a clinic to contact you in a particular way?
Yes. Clinics should record a patient's preferred contact method and any restrictions, and patients should be invited to state them.
Will a clinic leave a voicemail?
It depends on the clinic's policy and the patient's stated preference, which is why the position should be published and recorded.
How are results usually given?
Practice varies. Some results are given by telephone and others at an appointment, and clinics should explain their own arrangements.

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