Industry Guides· 3 min read· By The SpideyChat Team

Legacy And In Memory Giving Questions

Somebody wants to leave a gift and cannot find out how to ask. A checklist for legacy giving.


Somebody is making a will. She has decided to leave something to a charity her father benefited from.

She looks at the website for the wording her solicitor needs, the registered number and whether she can say what it should fund. There is a legacy page with a photograph, a paragraph about the difference legacies make and a telephone number.

She does not telephone. She tells her solicitor to leave a general gift to a similar charity whose website had the wording on it, and the first charity never knows any of this happened.

1. Publish the wording a solicitor needs

The single most useful thing on any legacy page, and the one most frequently missing.

2. Publish the registered name and number

Exactly as it must appear, since a gift to a slightly wrong name creates a problem the supporter will never know about.

3. Explain the types of gift plainly

A share of an estate, a fixed amount or a specific item, with the advantages of each explained in ordinary language.

4. Explain whether it can be restricted

Whether a supporter can say what it funds, and what happens if that work no longer exists, which people worry about.

5. Explain that they do not have to tell you

And why many people do, since the pressure to declare is what stops some people proceeding at all.

6. Explain that it can be changed

Wills are revised, and saying plainly that a gift is not a permanent commitment removes a genuine barrier.

7. Explain what happens afterwards

How the gift is used, whether the family is acknowledged and what the charity does, which matters to the person deciding.

8. Handle the in memory enquiry separately

Somebody arranging donations after a death is grieving, and the tone, speed and care required are entirely different.

9. Make in memory giving practically easy

Collection arrangements, online pages, funeral director coordination and acknowledgements, at a moment when the family has no capacity.

10. Explain the acknowledgement position

Whether donors are thanked, whether the family is told the total and what happens with names, which families ask and rarely find.

11. Answer the administrative questions for executors

Which is the ground in gift aid legacies and other donor admin questions.

12. Provide a written route

Because almost nobody will telephone a charity to discuss their own death, and a written route is what actually produces these enquiries.

13. Answer at the hour people think about it

Which is the evening, and frequently after a bereavement, when no office is open.

14. Explain the tax position without advising on it

That gifts to charities are treated differently, and that a solicitor or adviser should confirm what applies. Pointing at it is useful and assessing somebody's estate is not something a charity should do.

15. Answer the wording question without a telephone call

An assistant that gives the exact wording and registered details, explains the types of gift, states plainly that nothing needs to be declared and can be changed, and handles an in memory enquiry with appropriate care reaches somebody who was never going to ring. The donor questions sit in donor questions that go unanswered on charity websites, the faith sector version in giving and legacy questions supporters ask churches, and the matching logic in ai shopping assistant product fit. See features, start at try, and the sector view sits under nonprofits.

Frequently asked questions

What do supporters want to know about leaving a gift in a will?
How to word it, what information their solicitor needs, whether they can specify what it funds, whether they must tell the charity, and whether they can change their mind.
Why are these enquiries poorly served?
Because they are rare, they involve death and money, and the only route offered is usually a telephone number, which almost nobody will use for this.
What about in memory giving?
It arrives from people who are grieving, frequently within days of a death, and it needs to be handled with considerably more care than an ordinary donation.

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